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September 8, 2023 By glmuser

The Dance of Gender Roles: Impact on Marriage and Divorce

In the continuous dance of life, marriage and divorce stand as significant milestones. When we talk about these life markers, we often overlook the influence of gender roles in shaping the dynamics. The evolution of gender roles, shifting norms and their subsequent impact in the divorce process, warrants a close examination.

Our society, for ages, has painted a picture of gender roles that are quite stark. Men are traditionally viewed as the providers, while women are perceived as caregivers. These archetypal roles have persisted for centuries, but we are now seeing a shift in gender roles that is influencing both marriage and divorce.

The gender roles are no longer as clearly defined as they once were. Women are actively stepping out of their homes, breaking glass ceilings, and earning their share of the bread. Men, on the other hand, are embracing their roles as caregivers, taking on household chores, sharing parental duties, and even opting to stay at home to raise children. This shifting in gender roles has certainly contributed to altering the dynamics of marriage.

The shift in roles has led to a power balance in marriages, with both partners contributing equally to the household. It has also, however, led to a change in the nature of marital disputes. Conflicts about who earns more, who should take care of the children, or who should do the household chores have become commonplace. This is somewhat a product of our society’s struggle to adapt to these changing norms.

When it comes to divorce, the impact of changing gender roles is also immense. Divorce, once a stigma, has become more socially acceptable. Men and women alike are now more empowered to leave relationships that aren’t satisfying or healthy.

In the divorce process, with women becoming more financially independent, they are not solely reliant on their spouses for support. Statistics show that nearly 60% of women in New Jersey are employed. You can see exact numbers for the state at this Bureau of Labor Statistics Website.  While this data does not break down the percentage of working women who are married, it does highlight that the majority of women in the state work. When women work and earn an income, they may not have the same need to stay in an unsatisfactory marriage as they did in the past when they were bound by financial concerns.

On the flip side, the shifting gender roles have also seen men seeking alimony and child custody, which was once unheard of in the past. In any case, experienced divorce lawyers can help to ensure fair treatment when marriages are ending by seeing that the facts of marital situations, and not gender bias, are what drives decisions regarding property distribution, child custody, and potential alimony (alimony is gender neutral).

The shifting in gender roles has also led to a change in the way divorce is perceived. Divorce is no longer seen as a failure but as an opportunity to start anew. This shift in perception is crucial in creating an environment where individuals feel empowered to make choices that are best for them.

In summary, the shift in gender roles has undeniably influenced marriages and divorces alike. While it has brought a sense of balance and equality in relationships, it has also presented new challenges. However, it’s essential to remember that this evolution is a necessary part of our societal growth.

Additionally, as described in an article on gender roles in Psychology Today, in traditional marriages where each spouse knew their role, they had fewer reasons to argue. But with changing gender roles and more equality between spouses, more opportunities for conflicts arise. When both spouses believe they should have a say in all decisions, chances of fighting increase, which may contribute to unhappiness in marriage and higher divorce rates.As we continue to navigate these shifting terrains, it’s pivotal to engage in these conversations. We need to challenge the stereotypes, question the status quo, and work towards a society where gender roles don’t dictate the norms but contribute to creating a harmonious balance. The dance continues, and we must learn to adapt to the music.

We all know from experience that every marriage is different, and these differences must be considered when working out the issues of divorce. As skilled family law attorneys who have handled divorce cases for spouses in various situations, we know that there are always two sides to every story. When we work on divorce cases, we want everyone to get fair outcomes based on the circumstances; but first and foremost, we want to ensure that our clients’ rights and interests are protected and that they get the results they need to move forward in a satisfactory way when it comes to alimony, child custody, child support, property division and other areas.

Contact an Experienced New Jersey Divorce Attorney for Help

As shown by the name of our firm, we focus on men’s rights. However, this does not mean that we are antagonistic toward women. Because the lingering influence of traditional gender roles has sometimes resulted in the interests of men in divorce taking a back seat to those of their female spouses, we want to be sure that everyone gets a fair shake at the negotiating table or in a courtroom.

We will work hard to see that you– as a male —  do not end up having to financially care for your ex if she is capable of supporting herself. We will advocate for you to have equal consideration for custody of your children.

Whatever the gender roles in your marriage and your unique marital situation, [MFR] Men’s & Fathers’ Rights Divorce Lawyers is here to help you. We will provide experienced guidance tailored to your individual circumstances and advise you throughout divorce, helping you to make decisions that are right for you and your family. Call us at (201) 880-9770 to arrange a confidential case evaluation with us.

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